Hi MeeMaw1465, and welcome to the Our365 community! Don't worry, you're not being too wordy. ;)
My husband's parents live in England, so I know what it's like from a mom's point of view to have at least one set of grandparents not be nearby to see the babies growing up. :( We try to keep them feeling connected by sending lots of pictures via email (and prints by regular mail) and also sending a DVD of home videos once a month or so. They don't have a high-speed Internet connection so no webcams for us, unfortunately.
As for you wanting to help, I'm trying to think of ways you could "pitch in" from a distance. Maybe send her any coupons you might see to help the new family save some money? Compile a recipe book with shopping lists to make preparing meals easier (and incorporate some family traditions that way too)? I wonder if other moms will have some ideas too...
Congrats, in any case! :)